Querencia

I acknowledge, as a person diagnosed with depression and anxiety, that some days will be bluer than others. Some days will be murky. Some days I will feel like I am hopelessly trying to stay afloat when I feel the metaphorical waves crashing down on me. The days I run to the bathroom to cry, just because. The days I wonder my purpose, and why I am working hard to get to a place where I am unable to see the outcome. These are scary days. I lack less control on these days, smile less, speak less, isolate myself more, and choose numbness. This feeling is familiar, kind of like an old habit. One that I can sit within silence. One where I sit with loneliness- crippling loneliness. I guess I learned a long time ago the beauty of sitting with myself, which is the very reason why I travel alone once a year to challenge boredom, challenge non-social pressures, and challenge the feeling of interaction. Every one of these trips that I take, my mind speaks louder, sometimes screams and it is t...

You loved me. You loved me to the point I felt you circumference me with just a look. From that distance, you created a story, a story you reluctantly shared.  A story of us. A story of loss.  A story of the love we both wished for, wanting, yearning, whispering, and desiring. The story that would tear others to pieces, the story that they had wished for their entire life.  In the end, that story is up to you. Your little sister is not going to text you to the very end, she's going to fall asleep at 11PM. There you are, bewildered, distraught, hurt, looking for understanding.  There you give up. This is life. This is peace. This is YOUR sense of being. 

The Sun rose on a fresh world. Sunflowers smiled at her face as the Sun rose higher in the sky. The daffodils and the tulips followed suit, bowing their heads in admiration towards this bright light above. The world started to wake, dogs stretching into upward and downward-facing dogs, their favorite yogic asanas. The Sun birthed heat and melted the dew from the fresh patches of grass as they swayed in the wind. The leaves danced on their branches and the sunlight twinkled on their edges. Mother Earth was calling all beings back to life to breathe, to see, to smell, and to feel the energy of peace that surrounded them, a promise that the Sun made to them from the first breath of existence. But the Earth held memories of years past, traumas past. The Earth held the tears of the life that walked on it. Mothers mourning their children, flowers yearning for bees, the grass begging for water. The Sun always knew what to say with beauty and might. But most importantly, she always kep...

I watched your shoulders relax as I came to sit next to you, running away from others who were bothering my friend and me that Wednesday evening in Kona. There you sat alone nursing your beer as I ordered another drink at the bar. My first thought was, "Wow, this guy is cute". I never thought that a connection would be created, one that would change my night and let me experience a perspective-changing moment in life. Conversation was easy. You were easy on the eyes. You were warm. You were kind. You were what I needed. And in that moment of time, we were responsible to each other, two strangers from the Bay attempting to find a connection in an uncrowded bar by the ocean. We laughed. We drank.  I sang. You were shocked. We kissed. Our body language turned into each other. I truly appreciated your presence, the way you made me feel, the way your warmth encompassed my being. There we walked on the beach, hand in hand, eyeing each other the whole way. We sat and spoke abo...

I held my breath. A burst ran through my body. My mind rewinded to 7 years ago when I held his heart and my hands and mine, his.  Beginnings are truly so beautiful. They are beautiful because they are naive, excited, invincible. I remember our beginning all too well. How we accidentally fell in love. How we promised to nurture that love. How love was not enough.  There you stood just one foot away from me. The height of 5'10'' that stood over me, that looked at me, and saw deeply through me. I knew we didn't need to say a word. The words were already being spoken through the looks we gave each other. We hadn't seen in each other in years and I stood there, breathing in seconds of our youth. I didn't know how to say what I wanted to say in the jacket that he bought when I was with him. You may fall out of love with someone, but you will always love significant loves in your life. The ones that gave you everything you needed at that time. The ones that ...